i just found out that my friend's mom has died. simone and i have been friends since we were teenagers, and “D” as we called her mom definitely played a role in my life. D was amazingly outspoken. in fact, whether you wanted to hear about something or not, D would let loose on whatever was wrong with the world, with somebody, or you. i remember being on the receiving end of one of these tirades when simone and i had what i think was the only fight we have ever had in over 20 years of friendship. i don't even remember what we were fighting about, but we didn't speak for awhile. i called up her house to see if we could make peace, and her mom answered the phone and LET ME HAVE IT. and i mean, don't hold back, ma'am, tell me what you REALLY think.

i admired her for her outspokenness, her courage, and her generosity. underneath that tough chick was a loyal lady who dearly loved her family and friends. she battled breast cancer for a long time. i think she was trying to live long enough to see her future granddaughter, who is due in august.

i am sure her spirit is going to be in that child.